Growing up surrounded by memories of her father’s football career, Hayley Chown always felt distant from the sport that defined her dad’s life. Despite her dad’s success as a two-time Grey Cup champion for the Montreal Alouettes, Hayley found solace in her own interests as a horse enthusiast, theater lover, and history buff.
Rather than pushing football onto her, her dad supported her passions wholeheartedly. Even though he was allergic to horses, he would take allergy pills to accompany her to the barn and assist with her horse shows. As her dad’s health declined in 2024, Hayley realized the importance of reciprocating that support. She decided to connect with her dad’s love for football through their shared interest in history.
Watching old football footage with her dad, Hayley saw a glimpse of his past glory on the field. Despite the physical toll football had taken on him, her dad longed for his younger, athletic self. Reflecting on the impact of the sport, Hayley learned about the long-term effects of concussions in athletes, including the risk of chronic traumatic encephalopathy (CTE).
As her dad’s health deteriorated, he attributed 95% of his physical struggles to his football career. Participating in studies on the effects of repeated concussions, he eventually donated his brain for research after his passing. Through this journey, Hayley gained a deeper understanding of the sacrifices her dad made for the game he loved.
Despite the hardships football brought upon her dad, Hayley grappled with conflicting emotions. While she wanted to resent the sport for his suffering, she also cherished the joy and passion it brought him. Ultimately, she honored her dad’s legacy by recognizing his sacrifice and selflessness, symbolized by his Grey Cup ring and the legacy of his brain donation for research.
Hayley’s story sheds light on the complex relationship between a football player’s triumphs and struggles, highlighting the enduring impact of the sport on both athletes and their families.